Apr 22, 2014

Hi y'all!  What a busy last few days!!

Our office was closed on Friday, but I did not allow that to affect my mindset of what needs to be done! 
That good ol' alarm still woke me up at 4am.  I proceeded to forcefully shovel in the breakfast I have to eat as pre-workout.  IT.IS.HARD.AS.HADDIES to eat that early.  But I get it down and honestly I can tell my workouts are more productive than when I was just drinking a protein shake. 
 
I hit the gym parking lot at 4:43am like every other day and I whipped Leg Day #2's hiney!!  Then because I had the time, threw in an extra 30 minutes of cardio.  I really do wish I had that extra time every morning because this is exactly how I felt when I left......

ENERGY THRU DA' ROOF!!! 
 
Headed home to shower, get ready and go get my nayol's done.  Nevemind that I knew I'd be doing some deep cleaning on the boat this weekend.  EPIC.FAIL! 
They look hideous!! 
(What's she wearing?  Brown khakis at 2 am?? She sounds hideous!   Hahahaa)
 
After a quick grocery trip I headed home to unpack, grab my sexy man and head to the marina for the afternoon to get the boat summer ready.  It was overcast a bit and the temps were great...perfect cleaning weather.  Then...he threw a kink in my plans....he decided he wanted to get our corn planted.  It would go faster if I helped, he said and then we could go to the boat when we finished, he said. 
5 hours later, 2 damaged nayols and whole lotta fussin' and cussin'...we finished. 
25 rows of corn, 50 feet wide, planted...by....hand! 
 
Needless to say at 5pm when we finished, the thought of even walking down the ramp to the boat brought on agony.  We just wanted to shower, sit and chill.  I have no clue what my calorie burn for that day was but I wish I had thought to keep my Polar FT7 HRM on! 
 
Saturday morning, as usual, up at the bootie crack of dawn, but I passed on the gym and chose to use my boat cleaning seesh as my cardio for the day.  Cleaner, Rubber Gloves, 2 double rolls of paper towels and 4 hours later...I had a sparkling clean boat but unfortunately....my body was reminding me that I am not a spring chick!  My back hurt the rest of that day. I had back surgery, a lower lumbar laminectomy, in 2008 and my back is the first thing that warns me I've done too much.  So my answer to that was....catch some rays on the back of that boat and rest!! 

 

 Great day on the water, Hubs did some fishing while I did some sunning. 
From this point forward until about the 3rd week of September, this is where you will find us at least 2 afternoons a week and every weekend.  We are true blue river rats! 
 
Sunday I spent Easter at my sisters house with our family.  With this being Boog's first Easter it was just a bit more special!  He is growing way to fast.  Time could slow down just a bit!
 
Hitting the gym is as usual in the morning and then tomorrow is a vacay day with the Hubs to do a little fishing, little bit of sunning and a whole lotta relaxing!!
 
 
 
Have a beautiful afternoon!
 
 
 

Apr 17, 2014

Good Morning!! 
Today is going to be one of those non stop days I have a feeling!! Since I promised an overview of my recent workout routine and meal plan I gotta get it done early and quick!
 
As I've mentioned, my brother put this plan together for me.  Obviously this may not work for everyone but I do believe it's easily adaptable to any fitness level.  The more you do it and the more consistent you are, you'll be surprised how easily you can do more!  Alright, leeeegoooo!

Monday: Legs
Leg press 5 sets (PYRAMID) I would suggest 25 on each side, then 45, then 45 & a 25, then back down. (I'm currently leg pressing 135lbs on each side for a rep of 15-20)
 Smith machine sumo squat 5 sets (Pyramid) (legs about 6 inches outside shoulders, imagine a sumo wrestler stance) legs need to be a 90degree position at bottom of movement.  (I'm currently squatting 60 on each side)
Leg extensions 4 sets of 20 Squeeze the hell out of them for 2 seconds at the top. 
Lying leg curls 5 sets (PYRAMID)
Dumbbell lunges 4 sets 15 (10 lb dumbbells, maybe 15) stationary dumbbells. Fairly wide stance with 90 degree angle at bottom. You should feel the stretch really in your glutes on the down position and push through your heel going back up.
Seated calf raises 4 sets of 20 The main thing on this is to not try and lift the weight up, instead try and press your balls of your feet through the floor.
Tuesday: chest
Incline Dumbbell press 5 sets (PYRAMID)
Push ups 4 sets failure
Shoulders Dumbbell overhead press 5 sets (PYRAMID)
Dumbbell side lateral raises 5 sets (PYRAMID) The rule of thumb is to imagine the db are pitchers of beer and when you raise them up you pour them out(meaning pinkie and elbow towards ceiling and thumbs facing floor)
Barbell upright rows 5 sets (PYRAMID) Make sure the elbows go up and point behind you at the top to really get the contraction in the up position
Reverse pec deck machine for rear lateral raise. Works on your rear delts 4 sets 12-15
Wed: Back
Assisted pull ups 5 sets of failure. you should shoot for 12-15
Wide grip pull downs 5 sets (PYRAMID)
Dumbbell one arm rows 5 sets (PYRAMID) when you look in the mirror your butt and back should resemble a table. I should be able to put a cup on it. When that's right then the back will get an awesome workout!
Close grip cable rows 5 sets (PYRAMID)
Hyper extension NO weight. do 4 sets but don't go to failure. Once you feel it getting tight stop. The rule of thumb for this is do 2 short of failure. And don't hyper extend your lower back. The end position should be straight as a pencil no more no less.
Thur: Arms
Triceps
Vbar press down 5 sets (PYRAMID)
Dumbbell kickback 4 sets 15
Rope press down 4 sets 15
Biceps
Dumbbell curls 5 sets(PYRAMID)
Dumbbell hammer curls 5 sets (PYRAMID)
Cable curl with short bar 4 sets 15 (hands as close as you can get them without being uncomfortable)
Fri: Legs 2
Leg press wide 5 sets(PYRAMID) same as smith machine sumo squat
Smith machine squat close stance 5 sets(PYRAMID) keep your knees together as much as you can
Hip abductors(inner thighs) 4 sets 20-25. squeeze together with your knees and hold for 2 seconds on each rep. these are gonna burn but that's the inner thigh so go hard
leg extensions 4 sets 20-30 on Monday you are holding at the top, on this one go with a quick pace try and get 2 reps every second. This is a time under tension theory. You stress the muscle with minimal rest flooding the muscle with blood. Your legs are gonna feel like they're gonna explode.
Stiff leg dead lifts with just the bar. 4 sets 15 this one is tough to do and explain. Basically before you even start lowering the bar your ass should already start going back. a lot of people do this and think it's about touching your toes with the bar but really that's just a strain on your back, by pushing your butt out you feel the stretch in your glute and hamstring immediately and only have to go passed your knees with the bar. Once you feel it tight and stretching go back up and do another one.
Seated leg curl 5 sets (PYRAMID)
Standing calf raises(if they don't have the machine just do seated again) 4 sets 20
You should be shooting for 1 minute rests between sets.  The rule of thumb for resting is you don't want your heart rate to drop too much. If you can talk without having to catch your breath(or sing the song in your headphones which is how I gauge it) then hit another set. The less you rest the more fat you burn.
 
30 days, 5 days a week with 4 cardio sessions in the whole 30 days.  Rest day is Sunday.
 
 
Now to the kitchen....
I'm a creature of habit for the most part when it comes to my diet.  I LOVE meal prep!!!  It takes the work out of it for me during the week.  All of my containers are sitting there in the fridge ready to go everyday.  I don't have to think twice about what my meals are. 
2 hours on the weekend, saves me time, money and calories thru the week!!  #truth
 
My M-F meals have been the exact same for the last month.
 
Up at 4 and had a protein shake with water only and then on the way to the gym I drank my Spark
 
6:30:  Meal 2 was 1/4 cup steel cut oats with cinnamon & agave nectar, 6 egg whites & 1 slice of whole wheat toast and water.
 
9:30: Meal 3 was 6oz of chicken breast or Swai fish fillet and 2  cups of a fresh steamed/baked veggie.  My normal are brussel sprouts, asparagus & broccoli.  I have a fantastic way to cook the sprouts. I'll share that at the end.
 
10:30 Spark
 
12:30 Meal 4 was 6 oz of chicken breasts or Swai fish fillet, 1/2 cup brown rice/sweet potatoes and a cup of the greens or a small side salad.  No cheese and hot sauce as my dressing. 
 
2:30 Spark
 
3:30 Meal 5 was the same as Meal 3
 
6:30 Meal 5 most nights was a salad topped with shredded chicken/ground turkey or a taco type bowl.
 
Salad: Bed of Romain and spinach, fresh grape tomatoes, 2 boiled egg whites, fresh bell peppers, green onions & pepperochinis were the normal with sugar free balsamic vinegarette on the side to dip in.
 
Taco Bowl: Bed of Romain and spinach topped with shredded chicken or ground deer/turkey topped with black beans, a little rotel, green onions, bell pepper and then topped with about 2 tbsp. of brown rice or quinoa and then salsa. 
 
I average over a gallon of water everyday (includes water in Sparks).  I don't drink anything else unless its a beer on the weekends.  The weekends are my hardest times because it's not that I eat bad the whole time, it's that I don't eat.  We are always on the go and I haven't been planning properly.  That's about to change.  I'm planning to order a 6pk bag mainly so that when boating season is here I'll have all of my stuff with me so there will be no excuses!  The beer......sweet summer heat....that's going to be the mamma jamma of struggles. 
 
 
BUT, I'm more focused than I've ever been.  I'll take it a day at a time, one good decision at a time.
 
In honor of Throwback Thursday & Easter....my sweet Sammiegirl
 

Stephanie
 

Apr 16, 2014

Life on my terms

Whew!  This week is flying by but that's quite alright....I am looking forward to a long weekend!  Wait...that means tomorrow is my FRIDAY!??!??   Oh yeah, that's what I'm talking about!! 


 
I woke up this morning and found this on my fb page...
 
"I am so proud of my sister for qualifying for The Silver Leadership Pin with AdvoCare!
That's an extra $12k a year part time!  It has been incredible watching you grow and become such a strong leader over these past couple of months!"
 
 
This company really is amazing!  I'm excited to continue this journey of helping others
 achieve their health & fitness goals because as I'm on my own journey, helping others just 
motivates me to stay comitted.  It's also such a blessing to see others get excited about what AdvoCare can do for their financial freedom.  Heck, I don't know about you, but $1000 in EXTRA income per month is whole lotta dolla's to this country girl!  Thankfully our mortgage is the only major debt we have right now and my goal is to start knocking that down drastically! Thankful for the leadership from my sister, Amanda
 
If you are interested in learning more about AdvoCare, email me through my website
 
 
I'm on Day 3 of the AdvoCare 10 Day Cleanse and I am already feeling lighter!  It's amazing to me every time I've done it, just how much better I feel.  You change the oil in your vehicle every 3000 miles....why wouldn't you do the same for your body??  My favorite # right now is #treatyourbodygoodanditwillreturnthefavor
TRUTH!
 
Tomorrow I am going to share an overview of the workout circuit I have been doing for the last month along with the meal plan I've been on.  I am still amazed at how much stronger I am and how every day I'm able to push myself just a little bit further!  No matter what you are doing, just keep doing it.  Small changes will lead to results!   
 
 
Remember, positivity breeds positivity.  Ignore the negative, and focus on the positive!
 

 
Have a fantastic afternoon!!
 
Stephanie

 
 


Apr 15, 2014

Why is this so scary for me??

I told my sister that I was scared shitless to do this post and my heart is racing
like a chicken being chased by a ax waving farmer right now!  WTH? 
 
Why am I having such anxiety over this?   
My husband has always made me feel like I'm the most beautiful woman alive regardless of my weight.  He tells me every morning how beautiful I am to him and how much he loves me.  He is affectionate with me.  He will kiss me in public, he will hold my hand walking through a store and he will tell me he loves me just out of the blue.  We can sit in silence and still I can feel how much loves me.  He is proud of me being his wife.  So why on earth would I be afraid of what anyone, especially strangers, think about me??  Ya know what?? I'm not! 
 
Short intro...you see this is the little brother I grew up with everyday.  The one that used to aggravate the snot out of me.  The one that would embarrass me in front of my friends.  The one that would dress up like Steve Erkel for Halloween and look/sound just like him!  :)

 
And then this happened.....
 

The physical transformation in him is astounding but the focused, determination, drive and never give up mental change in him is breath taking to me!  He has turned into an amazing man, a wonderful husband, son, brother & uncle.  I am a proud sister!!   So when I was finally "ready" to make a change that would be attainable and sustainable I told him to hook me up! He warned me...it wouldn't be fun.  Bring it on...I'm ready! 
 
Now, don't scroll down thinking I've lost 100lbs like some of the aaahmazing women I follow on Facebook and IG.  Take Marcy!  this girl has lost 113 POUNDS Y'ALL....that's what you call hard work and dedication!!  She's done that shazit on her own!!  She has no idea what an inspiration she has been for me over the last year!  Life has been hectic for her and may have thrown a few weeny azz punches at her lately but she will come back swinging and stronger than ever!! We say that if we ever are able to meet in person, it'll be like sitting down for a Friday night beer with a life long friend!
 
No I haven't lost 100 pounds.  Hell I haven't even lost 50 pounds.  But over the last year I have lost about 20 pounds and I've lost approximately 28 inches overall.  I lost it, gained a little back and pulled the rains back and started losing again.  But I was bored, it was winter, it's been cold as Jack Frost's balls this winter and I loathe the dreadmill with a passion.  So I joined the local YMCA and thought I'd enjoy the different machines and maybe do a spin class or something.  After a month or so, no class and was bored again.  So, March 12th I began what I've dubbed as Phase 1 of a 60 day plan that my brother has put together for me.  He's not a "certified" trainer but in my eyes there is no one better!  I asked him to put a plan together and I only wanted to lift weights, do something different everyday and I would add in a couple of runs each week on my own.  I know what needs to be done diet wise in the kitchen and for the most part I eat mostly clean 85-90% of the time.  The weekends (no schedule) are my downfall. Those are what I've been working on.  I'm getting SO much better but of course summer is near which is going to add to that struggle.  But after doing a 30 day comparison this last weekend, I've recommitted, I'm focused and I'm ready to continue!
 
From March 12th until April 12th
By my husbands measurements I have lost a total of 10 inches and if I had to guess maybe a few pounds??  Really don't care about that ho'bag scale!  
 
 
I have not weighed because I don't own a scale.  That will change this week only because my brother wants me to get one.  Phase 2 started on Monday and the workout routine will change next week.  I'm told we will now begin to look for half pound losses which is fine but I'm also not motivated by the scale.  I'm more motivated by measurements, my clothes and now before and after photos.  I have always known lifting weights is beneficial...but seriously this is 30 days of nothing BUT lifting weights.  Those "thrown in runs I mentioned earlier"....I've ran once in 30 days and hit the stair climber 3 times for a total of about 30 minutes!! 
Ladies, lift those weights!!!!   
 
In lieu of Transformation Tuesdays, here is a few photos over the last year.  



May 2013


June 2013

September 2013

November 2013

March 2014

April 2014

This is not a journey that will ever be complete because it is truly a lifestyle change but I am in love with the changes I am seeing, the strength I am gaining and the knowledge I'm gaining.  Our bodies are capable of so many things that our brain dismisses immediately!!   Don't give up, don't quit.  Keep Going!
 
Have a great rest of the day!! 
 
Stephanie
 

Apr 14, 2014


Hey y’all!  Welcome to SouthernGirl on the Run!!  This blog is something I have been wanting to do for quite a while!   It seems like I’ve been on and off the "losing weight” bandwagon for most of my adult life.  But  over the last year or so my focused has changed from “losing” and watching that ho’bag of a scale regularly to becoming fit & healthy and paying more attention to what goes in my mouth and being sure I move my tail on a regular basis.   It is hard y’all to stay consistent, committed and focused but I do believe that I’ve finally got somewhat of a grip on it right now! 
My hope is this blog will keep me that way!
In the days of social media it seems we learn alot about a person just through the posts they make, the captions they share and even the pictures they post.  Would you wanna know a little more about me? No?  Great, moving along!!  #Sorrynotsorry  
Who am I?
Born and raised in the beautiful Volunteer state of TENNESSEE!!!!  Die hard, to the bone,
even when they suck, Tennessee Vol Fan!  We bleed orange in our house but we still welcome our friends that aren’t quite as smart as we are!  KIDDING!!  Poor Tennessee, they gotta lotta
work to do but no matter #GBO #VFL
I turned 41 in March and I'm totally okay with that!!!  I feel better thank I did in my 30’s.  I know that is because I am taking better care of myself as far as my body goes but also because I'm taking better care of my mind & spirit!  Deep huh??  LOL whatever!  I’m so not that serious of a person!   
Really though, I wish I had made the changes I have in the last year, ten years ago!!
Married and every day I fall in love all over again to the LOVE of my life and my best friend going on 22 years of marriage and we've been together for 24 years.  I could use this whole post  to tell you what an amazing man and Daddy he is and how I truly believe that we each have a soul mate, but I'll save that for another post.
MOM to this beautiful blue eyed girl, Lord have mercy, by far she is the best thing I've
every done!  I'm blessed that God chose me to be her Mama!


   
My Sammie girl aka Pineapple (her Daddy's nickname for her )
This girl brightens every single second of every single day for me.  Her happiness is what I want, hope and pray for constantly!  I am so proud of the loving, kind and selfless young
woman she has become!  She has such a sweet soul! 

I’m a licensed insurance agent, independent AdvoCare distributor (these products are Aaaamazing!  More on that later) and a lover of EVERYTHING outdoors!!   I love to duck hunt, deer hunt, squirrel hunt and fish.  The hubs and I do all of these things together and I wouldn’t have it any other way!!  The family that plays together stays together!  Gimme a little camo , a lil’ paint on my face,  a muzzleloader in my hand
and I feel like one bad mamma jamma!!!    


If it floats, I’ll get on it.  I would spend every day, all day laying on a boat out on the water. 
Put a cold beer in my hand some tunes on the radio and I’m probably the happiest person alive  in that moment!  I am so glad that summer time is almost here.  Though I’m sure here in about a 6 weeks I’ll be fussin’ because we won’t be able to cut the humidity with a butter  knife (and yes I say that as in  - n”eye”f)  I’ve been known to sound "hickafied”  from time to time. Kinda like “warshing” dishes, ya know



7 months ago, I became the Aunt to this handsome little fella.  He has brought so much joy to our family! .  He has no idea just how much I love him!! Long story short, I was almost 16 when his beautiful Mama was born.  So for “my baby” to have her first baby has been an amazing experience and seeing her with him and seeing what an amazing mommy she has become are memories that I will cherish forever! 

Bennett Lane aka "Boog" :) I mean seriously, could
this kid be any cuter?

I'm the oldest sibling to 3 brothers & 1 sister.  These kiddos know that if they need something, I'll do whatever it is if it's in my power!  Being the oldest brings with the level of responsibility and I will always guide them in the direction I believe is best.  If they listen, great....if they don't....DENY DENY DENY!!!  :)



I've been known to plan a party or ten!  I'm our family planner with birthday parties, bridal showers, baby showers, a anniversary party and I've planned 2 weddings in the last four years for my brother and sister picture above.  Though it was stressful and I'da probably been crazy if not for my mother's help, I would do it over again tomorrow.  Being a part of that special time was such a blessing for me. 

 
Probably more information than most wanted to know but I have such a blessed life that it’s hard not to share as much as possible!  I hope you will continue to follow along on this journey of mine.  I’m counting on this to be my accountability but also my outlet to share the things that are working for me, the things that are not and also the days that I chose to eat a few slices of pizza and drink a few beers.  Because I promise you this country girl ain’t perfect and I will never claim to be!  I’ll keep it real, try and keep it fun and share all the mess the in between! 


Hope y’all have a great day!!

Stephanie